Resolve: v. cause to go into a solution; bring to an end
Resolution: n. a decision to do something or to behave in a certain manner
I could already be discouraged. How many years have I stayed up to watch the ball drop in New York only to drop the ball on my New Year’s resolutions by sleeping through my alarm on January 1? But, I have decided not to be discouraged. I have decided to encourage myself instead.
1. I will continue to do what has worked for me.
I accomplished my goal of reading 75 books in 2010. In fact, I read 76. I will continue this goal for 2011. Maybe I will surpass it by two. Maybe I will just be satisfied to read!
2. I will ignore the calendar and the scale.
One of the reasons I accomplished my reading goal is because I ignored the calendar. I counted books completed after January 1. Therefore, I counted the books already started in December. I focused on my progress rather than the start date.
I think the same applies to ignoring the scale. Why not be thrilled each morning I can button my jeans and gradually feel them loosen when I eat moderately and stay active?
3. I have begun to throw out what hasn’t been working for me.
I realized mid-summer ordering mochas with whole milk and whipped cream was not helping my jean-buttoning goal. So, I ordered them with skim and no whip. A small change, but my jeans suddenly fit better.
The week before Christmas, I organized my bathrooms. According to the expiration dates on several medications, this hadn’t been done in five years. It took two days and several trash bags, but the job got done. I discarded what didn’t help me because I didn’t use it. The same goes for the well-intentioned resolutions from 2010 now expired.
4. I will start.
I am beginning the year with organized bathrooms. There is no need to worry about this task for another year. Done!
I completed my reading goal, but I haven’t stopped reading. I would like to abandon The Idiot by Dostoevsky, but what an accomplishment (and relief) it will be to list it among my first completed books of 2011!
I haven’t written on this blog for a year and a half. I could wait for my husband to complete the website revision. I could abandon this editorial; the first time I wrote it, the site crashed and lost the content. Or I could do what I am doing now…begin again.
When my kids feel overwhelmed by a task, I tell them what my mother told me, “Just get started.” I dropped the ball this morning. Tonight, I picked it up…twice.
Happy New Year!